Your Red & Green Flags
- 4 min
- 16 questions
What does your relationship do well? Where does it need attention? Are there any signs that it isn't safe? This test asks about boundaries, financial control, surveillance, stalking, threats, sexual pressure, and physical force. You may skip any item or leave without losing progress.
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Scan with your iPhone camera to start Your Red & Green Flags on your phone.
What you'll discover
- The green flags your relationship already has
- The patterns that deserve a closer look
- How you both handle conflict, support, and boundaries
- Any safety signals, which never get averaged away
- Support options if you need them
What it looks at
- Autonomy & Boundaries
- Whether both people can have limits, privacy, independent relationships, and control over personal decisions without pressure or punishment.
- Responsiveness & Support
- Whether each person can feel heard, cared for, encouraged, and safe from having vulnerability used against them.
- Conflict & Repair
- Whether disagreements can remain specific, pause safely, return, and produce accountable change rather than humiliation or punishment.
- Safety & Freedom
- Freedom from fear, surveillance, unwanted pursuit, threats, sexual coercion, and physical force.
How it works
- Get MeMirrorDownload MeMirror on iPhone, then open Your Red & Green Flags from Discover.
- Answer 16 questionsAbout 4 minutes, one statement at a time. There are no right answers.
- Get your reportYour result as a short story, then the full summary to keep and share.
MeMirror supports self-reflection and personal growth. It is not a medical service and does not provide diagnosis, treatment, or professional advice.
