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Narcissistic Relationship Pattern

  • 6 min
  • 24 questions

Does this relationship make room for both of you? Does one person always need the attention, or the last word? What happens when they're asked to take responsibility? This test includes questions about devaluation, control, unwanted pursuit, threats, sexual pressure, and physical force. You may skip any item or leave without losing progress.

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What you'll discover

  • Whether this relationship makes room for both of you
  • How attention, give and take, and blame really flow
  • Whether you're adored one day and dismissed the next
  • Clear words for the pattern, without diagnosing anyone
  • Safety-first support if you need it

What it looks at

Attention & Status Regulation
How much shared interaction is reorganized around the person's recognition, image, comparison, or return to center stage.
Entitlement & Reciprocity
Whether exceptions, care, accommodation, credit, effort, privacy, and limits operate by one-sided rules.
Idealization & Devaluation
Sharp changes in another person's assigned value, from exceptional or indispensable to disappointing, inferior, or disposable, especially around frustration or distance.
Accountability & Control
How concerns are answered and whether consequences, punishment, restriction, surveillance, or danger are used to protect one person's position.

How it works

  1. Get MeMirrorDownload MeMirror on iPhone, then open Narcissistic Relationship Pattern from Discover.
  2. Answer 24 questionsAbout 6 minutes, one statement at a time. There are no right answers.
  3. Get your reportYour result as a short story, then the full summary to keep and share.

MeMirror supports self-reflection and personal growth. It is not a medical service and does not provide diagnosis, treatment, or professional advice.

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